Ask Wendy by Williams Wendy

Author:Williams, Wendy [Williams, Wendy]
Language: eng
Format: mobi, epub
Tags: Itzy, Kickass.to
ISBN: 9780062268402
Publisher: HarperCollins
Published: 2013-05-01T04:00:00+00:00

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My husband’s best friend is a loser. He’s lost his job and his apartment, and he’s always borrowing money from us. Now he’s asked my husband to cosign a loan for him. How do I get my husband to get rid of this deadbeat?

I am cosigning with YOU on this. I don’t like this dude draining your bank account. It has got to stop! I hope your hubby is not loaning more than you can afford. This is becoming detrimental to your financial future and your relationship. Is your husband even aware that cosigning a loan will affect the amount of money and credit you as a couple can have? Your man is generous and compassionate and loyal—all great qualities. But his friend is taking advantage of him. Sit down with your husband and tell him no. No more lending or loaning. His pal needs to stand on his own two feet and you need to stand united on this as a couple.

My husband’s ex-girlfriend showed up ten years later and told him she has a twelve-year-old daughter by him. Obviously, she wants something. What should I do?

Yeah, what she wants is twelve years of back child support. Look, this is a bad situation all the way around. I would not hate on the ex-girlfriend. She’s apparently carried this burden for ten years. She hasn’t bothered him. She’s tried to go it alone. She hasn’t been the scum of the earth pounding on windows and doors and blowing up telephones and taking him to court. She is a better woman than I would be, because I would have contacted him right away and demanded DNA. I would have made him pay through the nose.

So that’s where I want you to start, with a DNA test. Make sure the kid is really his. And if she is, then you should stand by your husband. I know that’s a short statement and a long task. I don’t know how much this woman wants financially or emotionally. Is she expecting you to welcome this little girl into your family fold? And how does your husband feel about it? Does he want to be her daddy, or simply write a check? Talk to him; don’t judge.

My sister broke up with her boyfriend three months ago. We bumped into each other at a party and he asked me out. He’s really cute and sweet—but is he off-limits?

You better believe it—and I am sure you already know that in your bones or you wouldn’t be asking. So hands off, honey! This can only lead to major trouble between you and your sis, not to mention the rest of your family. In my opinion, if he screwed (literally and figuratively) one of you, than he is persona non grata. That goes for one-night stands, hookups, even drive-bys. There are plenty of other “cute and sweet” guys out there. Why are you considering one of your sister’s castoffs? I also want you to think about this: Maybe he is asking you out to screw with her.

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